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Will relationship survive?
Will relationship survive?
Happy and smiling look at us from the pages of all existing magazines, and in the accompanying interview they send the message to all that are interested (or happened to bump into it) how they have (finally) found their life partner: full of love, understanding and generally full of all other wonderful characteristics - which are usually expected from their life partner.
After some time (a few years, or only a few months) the smile gets sour, relationship is on ice, statements are reserved, for ex.: that is our thing, blah-blah. The same scenario is, of course, going on in relationships on private scenes, but we found about that only from black chronicle.
Love includes mutual growth and development. Separation or divorce mainly happens not because we chose a wrong partner, but because our needs change in time: at one moment, this is a person which suits us completely, but it is difficult to predict how we are going to change and if he or she will suit us in the future.
Some marriages that went through stormy periods in the beginning calm down in middle periods. Partners succeed in finding a good foundation for their relationship, and usually by that time they have less financial problems, less housework (or change their attitude towards them), and more time for being together.
As they grow older, their initial differences smoothen out. (Or bring to divorce earlier). Into all of this we should include a so called ''Partner DNA'', an ingredient that comes out in each interaction and on which the future of a relationship greatly relies on.
And if one or both partners belittle the other, the relationship is in serious trouble, no matter how old it is.
